Minggu, 27 Februari 2011

Become a person of interest

Everyone wants to be attractive, the center of attention, well-known and admired by many people. Being interesting and fun is the obsession of most people. Interesting and fun include physical aspects (physical) and non-physical (includes: emotional, personality and personal integrity). Many people are beautiful, handsome, clever and rich but can not be categorized as the people who interesting and fun because of something lacking in them. People who are interesting and fun to make people love him and always wanted to be close and want to see it and want to interact with it. People who have fun like a charm and has a wealth of priceless value. In contrast to the beauty and intelligence which in essence is something given by God (given), interesting and fun is something that can be studied and stimulated in every activity of our daily life (daily activity). For that there are a few tips that need to be followed and done if we want to have a Personality That Attract and quality.

Tips-tricks are as follows:
1. Player interaction Always polite and kind towards others causes us to be interesting and fun for the other person. When you meet with anyone we should "warm" and friendly to him. Scolds a sweet and warm greetings, such as: Hello ... what Mr. Mouse, Good Morning ... Good Afternoon ..., etc. we must always say complete with facial expressions and body language that reflects a sincere and to represent it all. In people the first time we know we should say: "I am delighted to meet you ..., Sometime we talk again ..., etc., etc.. The people who want to look attractive, fun and attention people are people will never hurt and wounded hearts and feelings of others. When the hearts of people are injured it will be difficult to recover in a short time probably hurt even turned into a smoldering fire revenge which at times can explode like a neutron bomb that powerful
2. Hospitality The principle of "Touch the heart", should be held and understood very well in order to generate IMPRESSIONS INTERESTING and FUN to ourselves. NEED SOME who practiced in connection with the player interaction and hospitality: Embrace scolds Sapa People: "There is no thing as comfortable as the words of welcome given by others with a sincere and cheerful tone." Smile To the People: "There are 72 muscles it takes to frown, but it only takes 14 muscles to smile fruit." Call people by name: "Music is the most beautiful and serene in the ears of anyone is the sound of his own name ...". Be Friendly: "If you want friends, be friendly ..."
THE VALUES OF SMILE :
It costs nothing but create much.
It enriches those who receive without impoverishing those who give.
It happens in a flash but the memory of it sometimes lasts forever.
None are so rich that they can along without it, and none are so poor but are richer for smile.
It create happiness at home, foster goodwill in a business and is the countersign of friends.
Yet it can not be bought, begged, borrowed or stolen, for it is something that is no earthly good to anybody till it is given away !
And if it ever happens that some people should be too tired to give you a smile, why not leave one of yours ?
For nobody needs a smile so much as those who have none left to give.
3. RESPECTIf we treat others as we want diperlakuakn probably will cause tension, because other people may not like the way we are. Conversely, if we treat others the way they want to be treated as so essentially we have captured the essence of our true self flexibility.Respect for others, it means learning to treat others differently according to their confidence levels and needs rather than according to levels of demand and confidence in ourselves. This could lead to moral understanding and acceptance among individuals and groups. It also shows someone PERSONAL INTEGRITY.Respect for others, perhaps more easily understood as: "the search for shared common interests and then work together to achieve the win-win (win-win)
4. FULL ATTENTION (ATTENTIVE)Attentive attitude means to realize "what is happening in our environment. " Attentive attitude associated with the ability to read situations that implied (implicit). It can start from as simple as paying attention when someone was bored and feel that now is not the time to convey our ideas.Being mindful means to empty yourself of thoughts ourselves subjectively (able to see the glass eyes of others) and open horizons and minds to want to see things outside ourselves.A caring person also knows when to act and when he could not act. People who are classified as attentive will play in terms of: trends, patterns, variety and opportunity. A caring person will have a good open attitude toward the incoming information, ideas or suggestions from others.

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